Mediation is an independent and impartial process where a qualified mediator helps couples whose relationships have broken down to agree arrangements for the future of their children or finances. This can help married and unmarried couples with the aim of avoiding lengthy and painful court proceedings. Arrangements are more likely to be practical and work well in the long term if they are agreed by the couple rather than being imposed by a court. We can refer couples to local mediation organisations that can assist with this.